A sociopath takes great pleasure at having absolute control over your life, over knowing everything that is going on in your life, whilst keeping his own top secret. He behaves like a military spy. Some can even keep two phones. It is odd, that someone who is so determined to know about everything in your life, is so secretive about their own. This gives the sociopath great joy, as it is the ultimate control, to guard the secrets of his own life, to be doing things behind your back, whilst keeping control over yours. To the sociopath the only freedom that is available, is his own. He has no concern for the rights or welfare of anybody else but himself. But he demands freedom for himself. And will go to great lengths to deceive and be deceptive. The more that he has control over your life, the more he can closely guard his own secrets, and his own private world the happier he is.
Sociopaths do not have too much in life. Because they do not feel too much, life can get boring. They need to stop themselves from being bored, and playing the game with you, or anyone else, is an effective way to relieve boredom. The one thing that the sociopath does have, is plenty of time. Time is also the one thing that others have little to spare. Because of this, they love to waste YOUR time. This gives the sociopath a sense of dupers delight to see how long that they can get away with it.
Sociopaths struggle with boredom because:
1. They have a lack of life goals
2. They feel little inside
3. They do not learn from past mistakes, so they do not progress
4. Their own life goes round in circles, and so it is fun to make yours go round in circles with them.
Spending time with a sociopath, will likely get you nowhere, and after a while you will realise that you are wasting your time.
Not only are you wasting your time, you are also wasting your life.
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